“Bubbie, you didn’t give me a present for my birthday!” wailed my four-year-old grandson.
“Of course I did!”
Trying to reason with a sobbing child, I calmly explained: “Remember, I gave you the matching game with the colorful pictures?”
“But that wasn’t a present!” he yelled.
“The game wasn’t wrapped! You didn’t give me a present!”
“Ohhh…you mean if I give you a game that’s not wrapped, then it’s not a present?
“Right. You didn’t give me a present!”
Oh! I never knew that a wrapped box made the item a present…at least for a four-year-old. But how could I correct this egregious error? I didn’t want to be known as The Bubbie Who Doesn’t Give Presents!
This conversation happened in December, shortly before Chanukah. Perhaps I had a chance to redeem myself.
“Chanukah is coming. What would you like?”
“But Bubbie…remember to wrap it!”
“Of, course!” I smiled back and gently patted his face. We continued chatting, played some games, read stories, and I visited with the other kids. And of course played catch with Jax, their two-year-old frisky Lab.
As I walked to the front door to leave, Mr. Wrap-the-Present reminded me, “Bubbie, don’t forget to wrap my toy!”
The Importance of Wrapping
Typically, kids excitedly and hurriedly rip the wrapping paper off the box, toss the ribbons to the side, and tear open the box. Wouldn’t simply handing the kid the toy they wanted do the trick? I could smile and say “Happy Birthday”.
Apparently, wrapping the gift matters. From my research—outside of speaking with four-year-olds—I discovered that a wrapped box:
- builds curiosity: “It’s a large box; what’s inside?”
- increases anticipation: “Did she get me what I asked for?”
- boosts the surprise element: “I wonder what this is?”
- is something people prefer: “It would have been so much more fun to have a cutely wrapped box!”
Redressing the Egregious Error
My oldest grandson and I shopped for his little brother’s gift. We found the oversized PJ Masks toy easily. As we approached the checkout line, I saw wrapping paper and bows. “Better buy the wrapping equipment now so we can bring the gift home prepared.”
“Yup! But how will we wrap it before we get home?” N. wisely asked.
“In the car!” Then I realized I didn’t have scissors and tape in the car. “We’d better duck into the drugstore and get scissors and tape.” I figured it’s always helpful to have spare scissors and tape in the car. Never know when I’ll have to wrap another gift on the road!
Supplies in hand, we set to wrapping the gift. The Honda Civic seats were too small for us to wrap the gift in the back, so we opened the trunk.
“Bubbie, we’d better work fast. I think the weathermen were right for once; looks like rain any moment.”
We unrolled the paper and tried to straighten it out in the confined space. Giggling, we unevenly cut the paper. I placed a portion over the front of the box and taped down the paper. And then the drizzle started. We worked as quickly as we could, laughing about the absurdity of wrapping a gift in the parking lot, in the rain!
The effort paid off! We brought in the large box, covered in blue and silver paper, and topped with navy blue bows. Little brother greeted us wide-eyed and a with a large smile: “You bought me a present!”
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